Thank you Dreamwidth for asking for and collecting donations to help get LGBTQ folks out of Russia. A lot of people would mind their own citizens business, but you guys are helping to make people aware of what’s going on there because of the LiveJournal thing. I’d love it it you could respond to my blog or @VocalVirgo Twitter and tell people more or show them where they can go via a link to let them read what you had to say about this. And thank you again for trying to help others in need and in danger.
Gosh, I sure hope all the people that were or are still using LiveJournal as their diaries, get their stuff off of there ASAP. It is now 100% Russian owned AND operated. Russia’s new laws are being enforced even via people’s personal diaries. For example, if you defame the Russian government in any way – you get arrested. Here’s another, even sadder example – if you mention anything gay or lesbian or transgender or bisexual or queer in your journal, it will get picked up by their scanner programs, and if they find, by reading, that your journal contains support of anyone that fits in that criteria or if you yourself fits that criteria, you can (and probably will be) arrested. If you are in Russia and you are gay or support gay rights at all, and you use LiveJournal: they will read your journal and they will knock on your door and arrest you. They’ve done it to 4 people so far. No judge, no jury, not even a trial. Just jail.
LiveJournal.com is not what it used to be folks.
I’ve lived in my 1999 Winnebago Brave (26feet long, Class A) motorhome for 4 straight years. It has more than paid for itself in just those 4 years of full-timing alone. I have stayed, for weeks at a time, for free, in the parking lots of private animal rescue groups, the ASPCA, and privately owned/run farms, catteries & kennels, I even lived in it on top of a mountainside (twice) while taking care of my friend Joe who first had cancer (and beat it!) and then while he was drug addicted and needed constant supervision and support. I of course have also stayed at National Parks, BLM lands and a little snatch of boondocking (which doesn’t work all that well when your RV is so conspicuous). Oh, and how can I forget Slab City. This rig has been through flash floods, hail storms, freak blizzards, Death Valley heat- and I’m nervous to tell you… some really harsh 4WD logging trails (I REALLY wanted to get to those beautiful remote places!).
Even with all the abuse my poor motorhome has seen, every single thing in it still works dependably, like when it was new. I mean, EVERYTHING works! And that is part of my first reason for keeping the homely thing. Every single thing works.
The other part of reason #1 is that because it is a bit beat up and a bit old/ugly (I’ve had if for 18 years now). I’m don’t worry about taking it through/to even the worst of locations because it’s already scratched up by trees and weather. And I still love going to those crazy remote places where it gets battered by tree branches terrible roads and the like. I wouldn’t dare take a new $80,000 motorhome to the kinds of places I enjoy going to the most.
The second reason is that it’s paid for. Yes it gets terrible mileage (I mean like 9-12 MPG, but mostly 10 MPG. Even if I were to stop traveling in the rough parts of the country, getting a new RV would cost a small fortune. And 15-20 MPG in one of the newer models will never pay me back with the difference in milage (not even close) to the extra money I’d fork over for one. What I mean is, I can get my motorhome to last about 200,000 miles (maybe), but after 200,000 miles on a new one, it would never pay me back with it’s 50% better MPG. I did the math. Yes, I’m that #Jewish.
However, newer RV’s drive better, are way nicer inside, are current and up to date mechanically, tecnowlogically and with creature comforts an older unit like mine just doesn’t have.
So now I’ll tell you the 2 bad things about keeping my older unit, but first let me tel you that keeping an older RV requires more attention. Nothing has broken, but like everyone else, my older RV has had it’s leaks. And it has no leveling system whatsoever. So, I water seal the roof and Windows constantly, and I try and find the flattest spot when I get to my destination. Also, the black tank can smell. I mean, you know I have Poop humor, but that sh*t ain’t funny. (See how I did that…?) 🙂
So here are the 2 things that suck about keeping my old RV instead of trading it for a new unit. First reason (and I hate myself for feeling this way): I get judged ALL THE TIME and people assume I am a homeless person. Just the other day my neighbor came out of her home and walked across the stree and to its end where I was parked and unloading from a returned trip. She treated me and talked down to me like I was a direct reflection of the old, beat-up RV. After not so politely ordering me to “Never park that in front of my house or else…”. She then asked me *4* times where I lived as though she didn’t believe me when I pointed to my BF’s house just 2 doors down from where we were standing (where I live when I’m not on the road and which is my legal address). Then she was shocked, I mean genuinely surprised to hear that I own a car. It’s brand new and it’s nicer than what she’s pushing. But then I though she was going to seize up right in front of me when I told her (after again trying to prove I’m not homeless and now use my RV for animal rescue and enjoy lots of soul-searching camping trips in far away, peaceful places) that I also have a (gorgeous) new sport motorcycle. My point is that some people, for some reasons that have nothing to do with us, (“us” meaning my fellow RV’rs and #VanDwellers who live in or own a rig that isn’t new and gorgeous) think you are trash when you have/ live in one. I have been harassed and treated like total #WhiteTrash solely based on the age/appearance of it. I know, I know, even giving exactly 1/2 a f*ck about what people think of me or assume about me is very unlike me. But after I’d been approached by total strangers yelling at me to move it off their street (whether I’m visiting friends along my travels or parked right there by my house in between trips), can almost make a guy FEEL like he actually may be a loser or lazy bum or white-trash or whatever. The second bad thing about keeping my old, #Ugly motorhome is that I tend to get pulled over a lot. It’s a kind of profiling that the highway patrol/city police do. I think they assume that it’s not registered or insured because if you’re driving a sh*tbox like mine, you must be poor and therefore there is a higher probability that you’re some methhead who’s last thought in life is to have insurance or be registered. Every single time I’ve been pulled over, the police (in several different states) had ended up being nice. But it’s that profiling thing…
Anyway, I just thought I’d share my $.02 cents about the reasons I have no plans to upgrade.
There, that was short and sweet, right?
I’m taking the enire rest of this Spring and Summer to work with farm animals, and of course living in my motorhome on the farm. It’s something I’ve always wanted to do… And there at the farm I will once again be reminded of how living in the motorhome in a beautiful location between the trees and by a creek is so so good to your wallet too. When I volunteer, the parks or organizations either give me a free spot for the duration or pay for me to have one close by. This is a lifestyle I absolutely love. I truly just love it! Even in my #OldUglyRV…
I’ll buy a new one someday, but for every year longer I keep my ol’ buddy, I’m saving tons of money. And I need every penny I can get because of my bad habit of buying #Hookers all the time. 🙂
If/when I drop cold, hard American ca$hola on a new one, I’ll let you know. Until then I’m going to keep enjoying the f*ck out of what makes my c*nty neighbors and nosey strangers so upset. I might even have make some sex with my BF in it while parked in front of our homophobic neighbors house! Yah me!!
So there’s this lady, lol. You know the rest of this story because it’s like so many others all over. But mine happens to be on/the use of the NextDoor app.
The first 2 screenshots are @NextDoor email to me about the complaint for violating their TOS, and then my response to them. Then there’s a bunch of in-order screenshots of the actual thread on NextDoor that’s being complained about. But the warning email to me from @NextDoor shows that me THANKING the husband for reaching out is what the complaint is about. WTF? Makes no sense. Ugh. I hate hateful people. Wait… What?
Christina Crawford is a now 77 year old woman who wrote a book called “Mommy Dearest” in 1978. Of course I’d heard of it, but I never read it (duh, I’ve only read 5 books for pleasure in my whole life #TrueStory) and I’ve never seen the movie.
So, I’ve got 2 things to say… Firstly, I never saw the movie because when I was a teenager my friends and some adults used to make (harmless) jokes about my (birth) mother being “Mommy Dearest”. They told me what the movie was about and it reminded them of my child-self and my (birth) mother. So obviously, I wasn’t going to run out and rent the DVD. But just now I’m watching an interview of her with Bill Boggs (BillBoggsYouTube) and I’m fascinated by how well mannered and genuine she comes across. People don’t interview like that anymore. And then before clicking away from YouTube, I watched a clip from the movie and I was kind of grossed out. It was made in the early 1980’s and took place in the 1940’s and 1950’s… and it was just so powerful. I was reading reviews and the film was panned as a dud and even a comedy, becoming a cult classic for all the wrong reasons. That saddens me. Here is this woman who writes a deeply emotional memoir about a terribly abusive childhood, and people make fun of it. Was it the acting in the film? What was it? Gosh, as a people, we are so damn critical. We LOVE the negative.
OK, so the second thing is that just watching the clips of the movie based on the book, now I understand why my friends, teachers and parents of friends told me that my (birth) mother was like Mommy Dearest.
So, in closing, I give this now adult woman in her golden years, a ton of credit for writing this book. And given the era, she was very brave to do so.
Thank You Cristina Crawford.
There are more inches of my d*ck than there were supporters at that sad Trump rally. But if you ask Trump, he’ll tell you it was “Yuge”.
Exactly what I tell the ladies…